They have only two children, and at no point did he ever say that Hermione or his future wife shouldn’t have a career (JKR believes that Hermione became a lawyer.) It’s pure fanon and deliberately spiteful.
- we aren’t on the same intellectual level - and I often have thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend because of this (we can’t have a decent conversation sometimes and it really annoys me), which makes me wonder if Hermione feels that way sometimes ….
But there’s no one in the series that I really feel is right for her… and while I was thinking about that, up popped an original character in my head, a very smart Ministry of Magic employee called Isaac, who swoops in and steals Hermione’s heart… And suddenly, it’s my main ship!
At times, Hermione acts very much like Ron’s mum, and their behaviour towards one another is nasty, petty and annoying - particularly in HBP when, for example, Ron is angry at Hermione for kissing Krum. Intellectually, Ron was never Hermione’s equal, and so I do find it hard to see them as compatible from that perspective as well. I can accept and tolerate them, yes, but I will never truly like them.